Hmm, in reading over this entire thread ~ hmm. I'm not picking out any particular comment other than to say I find this discussion amazing.
I haven't heard of anybody selling information nor violating rules with regard to a mailing list of some sort. I have no idea, but I can tell you this: there truly are two issues at play here.
I. One is called the 1st Amendment. I certainly am free to talk with those whom I choose about interesting topics and no, I don't mean hateful things (have no interest in that, never have) but anything interesting. Be it controversial or not. Discussion is a good way to come to consensus. And inclusion of people with different backgrounds, opinions basically maximizes effectiveness many times if everyone is on the same mission statement. Goes back to that statement along the lines of 'the sum is far greater than that of it's parts.'
II. The other one is called basically choice. I can pick and choose who I read, what I read, what I discard, whom I do not want to read; and I'm certainly responsible for what I read, choose to watch or not. I get junk mail every day in the snail mail box: that goes directly to the paper recycles. Yes, from charitable organizations soliciting money. If I want to donate money to a particular cause, I do that. If I don't, then I won't. Might be slightly annoying, waste of paper, but I certainly don't read it. I didn't solicit the ads which comprise, now, half of the Sunday newspaper. Those, too, go to the recycling bin without ever having been read.
I'm more than willing to read opposing viewpoints, people's opinions and still have this unique ability to make up my own mind. So I guess what I'm saying is frankly the hoopla over another site just astonishes me. Sure, I'd join it, see what folks say. I also go routinely to another wood turning site that has nothing to do with any AAW stuff.
But again apparently my background is very different, in that the sites with which I would have a problem would be actual truly illegal ones. And that has to do with my background in law enforcement and social work and the abuse of children, i.e. child porn, criminal offenses. Those kinds of things, sure: Federally prosecute them all, anyone who would do such a thing. Criminally charge those kinds of people and put them in prison.
But expression of opinions and thoughts about things, uhm, that truly is about the freedom of speech and I have a right to contact anyone I'd like to contact about virtually anything that is not illegal content. I'd never do anything illegal, nor defame someone's character, nor engage in that type of behavior, but goodness. The whole point of communication is to talk about your interests as long as they're legal interests.
Anyway, just my thoughts on the matter. And perhaps folks are now kinda having 'much ado about nothing.' As long as there wasn't a violation of some trade laws, or selling of lists, or anything like that, ya have every right not to read something or to read what you like on others' sites, long as it's not illegal content. I knew there was a reason I always liked Shakespeare.
Hmm anyway, just some things that I thought I'd offer for your consideration on this thread.