Jerry,many thanks to all for their replies, thoughts, and comments
and you've all confirmed my suspicions I would have possibly went at it the wrong way
thank god for these forums (the active ones at least) where a newb like me can get the advice needed from the experienced.
but, cheers to everyone who's taken the time to explain and point in the right direction
I'm very impressed with your enthusiasm and very worried if you're going to try to learn woodturning from this forum. If you're already past this point and know how to be safe at the lathe, please forgive me for speaking up. The folks here are very experienced and helpful, but there are serious safety issues in spinning wood on a lathe and you would be much better off to spend a half day with an experienced turner than hoping you'll ask all the right questions here. Your learning curve will be much accelerated and you'll also learn to avoid all kinds of things you might not realize can be dangerous.