I think of sharpness as
two equally smooth intersecting surfaces. The edge can only be as sharp as the least smooth surface. This is true for any cutting tool, bench chisels and turning gouges, axes, knives, scissors, swords. It is true with speech also. Ten "attaboy's" are offset by one "sh**"
While there is disagreement about how sharp (80, 100,...600) a turning tool needs to be, there can be no disagreement with the basic principle of sharp being defined by the least smooth surface. So the flute and the bevel work together in a gouge.
So if you want to improve a surface that is ground to 80 grit VVVVVV that intersects with a flute that is much smoother vvvvvv, then honing is one way to do it. If you do this by hand honing (Alan Lacer's preference and now mine) then you must practically have a hollow grind upon which to bridge the honing stone. That makes it easy to sharpen without having to remove much material, and to index the hone across two points, reliably polishing the cutting edge without round over.
I hone because it produces a better edge and a better surface on the turning. And it saves me many trips to the grinder. I only go to the grinder when the polished part of the bevel approaches about 1/16th inch wide. You can easily see the VVVVV of an 80 grit cut on the surface. A honed gouge creates a cut surface that is visibly superior. It is important to lightly hone the flute as well so that you are insured of comparably smooth intersecting surfaces.
A flat plattan sander with a fairly high grit can approximate the smoothness of the flute of a well made tool and be a reasonable outcome. Sanding at 80 grit is the worst outcome because you cannot improve the surface by hand honing, but possibly with a jig and power honing wheel. But that seems silly to me.
To another point. Yes, honing in a sense creates a more acute secondary bevel. If you don't want that result then make the initial grind to a slightly steeper angle. But I thinks that is a very negligible matter.
That's my story and I am sticking to it 🙂
Jerry