I’ve tested several hand-held diamond honing things - for the most part I stick with one brand, the EZE-LAP honing paddles. These are, from the top, super fine, fine, and medium. I like them so much I contacted the manufacturer years ago and bought a lifetime supply at a good discount. I have no idea what the grit “numbers” are.
I have them in five different grits in all grits but for turning tools I mostly use the super fine. I don’t remember what color the next coarser one is but the coarsest has a black handle.
Other diamond and ceramic hones are useful for some things: long tapered, etc. I have larger, thick diamond plates but rarely use them.
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I like these better than some others because of the way they are made. For use, I hold the end of the handle against my palm and put the tip of my pointer finger on in the curved area just behind the diamond plate - this gives me more control when honing gouges and such,
I also use them when sharpening hand scrapers, both along with a little jig I made to flatten the edge, and to remove the any sharpening burr from the corners before turning a burr with a carbide burnisher.
As for bowl, spindle gouges, scrapers, and skews, I may use the extra fine to touch up the edge once or twice, then it’s back to the 600 CBN grinding wheel or 1200 grit Tormek wheel to resharpen, removing the grinding burr with the leather wheels on the Tormek. I want shaving sharp tools.
I do the same for scrapers and NRS, sharpening on 600 grit CBN and removing the grinder burr with the superfine diamond paddle before turning a burr with a hand-held burnisher. I just do it what I’ve learned what works for me over years of trying different things.
JKJ