I believe that you misunderstood what Raul was saying. A mortar and pestle is used for crushing and grinding so it will grind the finish as well as whatever you are intending to grind. Just because something might be food safe doesn't mean that you ought to be intentionally eating it as if it were a seasoning such as salt, pepper, or paprika. My opinion is that a food safe finish means that it is safe to use on surfaces that come in contact with food, but not really suitable where the finish will be subjected to cutting or grinding. So, I wouldn't use a film finish on a cutting board, for example.
I wouldn't categorically say that all finishes are safe once the finish has cured. Things can leach out of art paints which may contain harmful ingredients such as lead chromate, cadmium, manganese, and many other things. However, I believe that most oil finishes, varnishes, shellac, and lacquer are food safe. Just think about how something will be used and whether a film finish will hold up.