The change happens so slowly that you don't even notice it, so I wouldn't worry about it. When you do get a new wheel, it may take a bit to get the whole surface of your tool to grind (you go from a slightly more blunt angle to a flatter one), but it is a minimal amount. If I used standard grinding wheels, I would go through a couple a year. I use a special CBN (cubic boric nitride which is a material) wheel, and my rough one (80 grit) has lasted almost 4 years with very little wear. The down side to these wheels is that they cost about $300 for a 1 by 8 inch wheel. Using stop blocks or spacer blocks is a good way to return to reset angles
robo hippy