I can’t advise on finishes for anything but straight wood.
I do use a way to find scratches before they are sealed under a finish. I use two things, a small, bright light source on a flexible neck, and Naphtha. I position the fixture so the light is at a glancing angle to a part of the work. I put some naphtha on a small piece of paper towel and apply it to the wood. At first, the liquid soaks in a gives a wonderful preview of what the wood will look like with finish. Then, just as the naphtha starts to evaporate (and it evaporates quickly) I examine the wood under the glancing light. This tends to make any remaining scratches visible since naphtha in the scratch doesn’t dry as fast as on the surface, making the scratch appear a little darker than the rest of the wood. This only lasts a couple of seconds so I reapply and turn the piece to expose different sections as needed.
Another thing I find helps a LOT to avoid sanding scratches. When sanding with one grit, always sand at 90 degrees to the first direction of sanding. For example, if the work is spinning you hold sandpaper against it, stop the lathe, sand across the sanding path (with the same grit!), then examine with the naphtha. (you can also use alcohol or other solvents but most take longer to dry and some may raise the grain a bit).
Before proceeding, I make sure no scratches are visible from the 1st sanding direction. My theory is that if I can’t get rid of, say, 220 grit cross scratches with 220 grit paper, I’ll never get rid of them with a finer grit!
On some pieces, it’s not practical to sand quite at 90 degrees to the first direction, for example, for coves on spindles. In that case I roll the sandpaper into a small tube to fit, then sand inside the cove an an angle while slowly turning the piece by hand. Sure all this takes more time, but hey,
On flatter surfaces such as platters or the inside and outsides of bowls, I use what I call a “soft sanding block”. I wrap a small piece of paper around a white “magic rub” eraser and sand with medium pressure. The eraser is flexible and conforms to the wood. I should also mention I do very little sanding on bowls, platters, and such - I found that hand scrapers are quicker and gave a smoother surface than sandpaper, especially when sanding with a rotating disk. After hand scraping to remove tool marks, I can often start with 600 or maybe 400 grit. Also, I do almost all my sanding by hand, with the lathe off. For things in chucks I often remove it from the lathe, chuck and all, and mount it in a carving and finishing post from Best Wood Tools. This holds the work in a comfortable position.
JKJ